No matter where I go, I’m always here.
One of my favorite poems is Mark Strand’s “Keeping Things Whole,” which begins:
”In a field/I am the absence/of field”
And concludes:
”We all have reasons/ for moving./I move/to keep things whole.”
I am sitting here, thinking about a trip that will have to be delayed a bit. Life requires that sometimes. We had planned on taking Gallivan, our 2019 class B camper van, on a five to six week trek from Rhode Island to New Mexico and Arizona. Instead, we will be making a number of shorter trips in the East. This is not a terrible thing, and the circumstances that require it are merely inconvenient, but it does provide me with the opportunity to write something I have been contemplating for a while.
There are, it seems to me, three reasons for traveling, which might also be called ways of traveling.
The first, of course, is to get to some other particular place than where you are now. This I will call “destination travel.” When we destination travel, there are almost always constraints of time, distance, and purpose that influence the traveling. We know (if there is a deadline to meet) fairly precisely when we have to be there, and how long the trip is likely to take. We know how far away the destination is, and we can plan specifically for travel expenses such as meals, lodging, transportation, and destination costs. And we know why we are going, what we intend to do there, and when we’ll be done and ready to come home.
The second way of traveling is to enjoy the trip itself, to stop and smell the roses along the way, to find experiences as we go. It’s the journey, not the destination, so I call this “journey travel.” When we journey travel, the constraints may be less specific than those for destination travel: how prepared are we to see and do whatever experiences present themselves? Can we be spontaneous, serendipitous, adventurous? Do we have the resources of time, money, physical attributes, curiosity, and observation? Sometimes, we may have constraints of time; we have limited vacation time; or appointments, responsibilities, or obligations for which we must return. Aside from that, however, we are free to travel as far and as long as we wish, and go wherever the journey takes us.
The third way of traveling is simply built on the desire to be on the move. We have no specific destination, and we aren’t especially interested in what we can discover along the way. We just want to be on our way. This is what I call “motion travel,” and sometimes it is my main reason for travel and my favorite way to go. When we motion travel the principal constraint is time. How long can we be away; when can we get started and when must we return? As we go, we can choose at any moment to stop for a moment or a while, visit someplace new or familiar, to discover or explore, or just keep moving. There is the maximum amount of freedom in such traveling, and the least obligation.
It is, of course, possible to combine all the types of travel in a single trip. Two summers ago, Sue (my spouse) and I set off on a trip that took us from Rhode Island, where we live, to New Orleans for the Jazz Festival, up along the Mississippi to Nebraska, then west to California, north along the Pacific to Washington, then back along the Canadian Border (and briefly across it), straight through the middle of New York and Massachusetts, and on back home. We had only two specific destinations: the festival, and relatives in Washington state. We were on the road from late April until mid July, and most of that time was unplanned in advance. We stayed some places for a week or two, because we found something interesting, or beautiful, or new, and had the time and resources to do what the experiences offered. We visited a friend in Florida, we explored the California Redwoods, we discovered a town in Arkansas that was steeped in the Americana and music we enjoy, found the Nobrara River in Nebraska, and made side trips along the Salish Sea and Puget Sound, and the northern edge of the Olympic Range. But we also simply stayed off the interstates for long distances, not looking for anything in particular, but taking whatever came our way, small towns with pretty parks, funky restaurants, unusual and fascinating museums in places like Elko, Nevada, or Minot, North Dakota. And sometimes, we just drove, with a CD playing music we could sing to, until we had gone far enough for that day.
We aren’t nomads. We like the comfort and security of a home base, of a starting and ending point. We have friends who have made their RV their home for years, now, and there is something appealing about going where you want, when you want, without having to be anywhere in particular in order to be home. By combining destination, journey and motion travel in a single, extended trip, however, I like to think we have found enough of the freedom and adventure of nomad life to satisfy our needs.
And this is key, I think. Let your travel, whether a few miles or across the country or around the world, meet your needs. Your travel owes nothing to places, people, or time, except what you choose to give. Travel as you will, and let that travel inform your spirit. Let every trip be, first and foremost, your trip.
So, I would say to all who long to go, don’t overthink it. There will be plenty of times when we just have to get somewhere; plenty of times when we just want to see what’s out there; and plenty of times when we just have to move. But whatever the way you travel, travel consciously, travel joyfully, and travel on your own terms.
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Gallivan’s Travels: The Choices We Make in the World We Live In
In Gallivan's Travels on January 18, 2020 at 7:36 pmSometimes you have a destination and you want to get there as quickly as possible. Other times you just want to travel, so you can take it slow and enjoy the scenery. And sometimes you want to reach as perfect as possible a compromise between the two.
And then there are the times you think you you know what you want, but life steps in and changes your plans.
I am not a big fan of the interstates. Most of the time I prefer to travel the secondary highways and less travelled roads. So, before we left Lums Pond State park, near St. Georges Delaware, I consulted my road atlas (much more useful for this kind of planning than a GPS app) and plotted a route south on US 301. We had a destination – a state park just outside of Richmond, VA. We wanted to get there at a reasonable hour, but didn’t want to rush. Also, we knew that we were likely to encounter some messy weather along the way.
US 301 is nice road to take south if you want to avoid the interstates. From St. Georges almost to the Maryland line it’s a well-maintained 4-lane with a wide, grassy media separating the north and south lanes, and relatively little civilization along the edges. I imagine the trees and fields must be gorgeous in the spring and summer. There was one toll just before the state line (I generally like to avoid tolls).
The scenery began to change a bit in Maryland, but the road still moved along well with little traffic. As son as we began to see signs for the Bay Bridge, however, the road expanded to 6 0r 8 lanes, and it got a little crowded. All in all, though, it was till preferable to the stress and pace of I95. Things stayed that way until we got within spitting distance of D.C., when we turned south again, and the road quieted down.
And the weather turned colder and wetter.
But we had our destination, we were still making good time, and we were looking forward to a relaxing evening in the campground and perhaps a short tour of Richmond tomorrow.
Then we got a phone call from someone back home in RI.
Be careful in Richmond, she said, the governor has declared a state of emergency ahead of the big gun rights rally planned next week. The FBI just arrested four men who were planning on bringing military-style rifles to the capitol. There have been weeks of online threats of violence, including white-supremacist sites calling for a “bugaloo,” the precursor to a race war.
Now, quite apart from the political and constitutional issues involved here, we are not the sort of people who feel comfortable driving deliberately into a place where there may be people with large guns thinking about actually shooting people.
Suddenly, Richmond was out as a tourist stop this week. And our campsite just outside the city seemed too close to the action, too. Who knew whether it might be filling up already with people plotting violence.
Now, before anyone starts talking about good guys with guns and police presence and “paranoia,” think about this. How many people might choose differently about going to a rally, or a concert, or a theater, or a church or a school if they knew that there might be even one person there, never mind possibly dozens, who was threatening violence and would bee heavily armed? The original planners of the Richmond event claim to have wanted peaceful protest, said they represent responsible gun ownership; but somewhere along the line, they lost control of the situation. It is (to put it mildly) ironic that a rally to protect the rights of responsible gun owners could turn so quickly into a display of the most dangerously irresponsible use of them.
But that is the world we live in now – not just around gun rights, but around a lot of issues. We have to make what used to be simple decisions about where we go and what precautions we take based on the unpredictable behavior of people who want us to be afraid.
Now, our original plan was to hurry up to Richmond tonight, take a stroll through the city tomorrow, then make a leisurely drive to visit family in Greenville, NC. We would arrive early enough for conversation, games, and a special dinner. We’d have time to adore and exclaim over our obviously talented and brilliant grandson, and then sleep in a real bed one night before going on our way.
Then the texts started coming and going. There were scheduling conflicts. Complicated family dynamics meant juggling different sets of parents and step-parents on the same day. How many nights did we want to stay, could we arrive this time rather than that time, and, oh yeah, there’s this other thing happening if you wanted to come that night instead of this one. So the leisurely trip became a destination, and the desire to avoid the interstates ringing Richmond meant going the long way around.
And that also is the way of the world right now. It’s harder to be spontaneous, even with family. We live far apart, and we have blended families and broken families and too many permutations of our relationships. We can’t just call up and say, hey, we’re ten minutes away, just passing through, and how about we bring you dinner or dessert, or a nice bottle of wine, and we hang out for a while.
Now everything has been sorted out, of course. One of the advantages of traveling in a small motor home and not having to get back to jobs or other responsibilities is that we can be flexible. We can adjust. Richmond will, I hope, still be there on our way back north in a few weeks. Family can be visited again when we might hope for a smoother connection. There will almost always be a way to choose the roads less travelled if we want to, or take the highway when we need to.
The complicated can usually be simplified.
And that, to, is the world we live in.
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